Dyslexia

Dyslexia: the parents’ story

I used to mix up the d and the p. Interestingly, this means that my parents had doubts during my pregnancy. This is true. Thus, each child tells the story of his parents and ancestors. Generation after generation, talents and unprocessed dramas are passed down through DNA. Your parents also received their parents’ inheritance. Therefore, within HeartConnection there is no blame, judgment or victim. By getting behind the story of the complaint and understanding it, the complaint disappears. An honorable task to pass on this knowledge and wisdom to you. Every child is perfect. You are perfect.

The story of Spring

Spring, a 13-year-old girl, meets with her family to look into her dyslexia. Throughout her elementary school years, she is told that she is stupid and that her automatic memory does not work properly. She tries very hard, she wants to be able to learn very well, but she doesn’t succeed. Very frustrating and certainly not good for her self-confidence. She has virtually no friends. Spring comes in with her head down. She comes across as somewhat depressed. In the process, she finds it difficult to get out of her words.

Events during pregnancy

Spring is in the bridge class (basic framework), her learning ability is at the grade 3 level. We go through the history of her life. When her mother was pregnant with Spring, Spring’s father was cheated on by his father, that is, by Spring’s grandfather. Her father could no longer enter his own business because Grandpa had changed the locks. Three weeks before, father had bought two tons of shares. In one day, her parents lost everything. Mom had anxiety, and panic attacks because of this situation. Spring was seven months in mom’s belly at the time.

Survival: memory locked

To survive, Spring’s subconscious has “locked” her memory. So that she doesn’t have to feel so much fear, uncertainty and panic. As a result, she does not absorb school knowledge from grade 3, when she is seven years old. This resonates with the drama during seven months of pregnancy.
You will learn these programming in the subconscious during the Training.

‘I can’t manage’

Lente’s parents already had two boys and they really wanted another girl. Before Spring is born, her mother suffers four miscarriages. At Spring’s ultrasound, Mother could not believe she was pregnant at all, and then also of a girl. I ask Spring, “How will Mom have felt that she had four miscarriages before you came?” Spring replied, “I can’t do it.” Mom gets emotional because of this and says, “This is right.” All through grade school, Spring thinks with achievement, “I can’t do it.” The same conviction as Mom. By understanding this story, Spring returns this conviction to Mom.

Biography timeline

We also go through Spring’s biography timeline to discover patterns. Suddenly she begins to cry and tremble. She says, “How much has happened in my life, it’s so much.” I explain to Spring and her parents that now she gets to give all these emotions back to Mom and Dad. We understood the story. Before sleeping, Spring says again, “Mommy, it’s so much.”

Mom says to her daughter at bedtime:

“Honey, give everything back to mom and dad.
These fears, pain and emotions are ours.
You are allowed to be wonderful children.
You make us happy by being all Spring and having fun and being a wonderful child.”

From elementary-framework to mavo

Within a year, Spring develops as a cheerful girl who is positive and very wise in life. From the lowest level, she got to mavo level in one year. Spring is cheerful, looks happy and has several friends. Last year, she was asked to debate at school. She can speak fluently.

Wonderful and grateful to see Spring developing so positively.

Lente’s mother takes the HeartConnection Training and she accompanies Lente on our trips each year.

Spring, meanwhile, is 16, and she says:

“What a beautiful story, yes it is. Fortunately everything is better now, I have friends and I am also doing well in school. If I can share this story to help other people I would like to share it.”

Many childhood themes are addressed during our three-year HeartConnection training.

Spring passed the Mavo with very good grades. She now has her own events agency and next year she will start Hotel School.