What story is my child telling?

Myra (52) asks a question about her 18-year-old son Nero. From an early age, Nero has been tired, weak, sick and nauseous. Every complaint is inexplicable. At 13, he had Pfeiffer, and from the age of four, Nero has been at home.

The symbolic meaning of Pfeiffer

Pfeiffer’s disease stands for: “I am, I feel alone in the family”. At first, Myra does not recognize this, but as she tells her story, it becomes clear that she has always been very alone. Myra talks emotionally about her mother. She attempted suicide seventeen times and was an alcoholic. Myra had to take care of her mother and was “grown up” at an early age. A carefree childhood she did not have.

Headaches and headaches

Nero sleeps poorly because he suffers from repetitive thoughts at night that keep him awake. During the trainings you will learn that thoughts make sense to resolve the conflict as quickly as possible. At night is the recovery phase. Mother Myra herself has always had headaches since childhood. What “headaches” does Myra have?

When she had a headache as a child, her mother would say, “Don’t be silly, I’m in a lot more pain than you are. With her mother, everything was always much worse. Myra thinks that headaches draw her attention, but also that headaches give her peace in her thoughts, in what she sees and hears. Now that she shares her story, she is understood, heard, and her headaches disappear.

Mother and child

That the road leads to her mother and childhood is confronting for Myra; she had never thought of this herself. She can now Connect-Melt-Loose. She feels sadness and anger. She misses a mother who gives attention and love and gives her a carefree childhood. She feels imbalance and restlessness in her body; she is stuck and wants to run away. She also wants to hit and kick, so angry is she. She feels trapped and makes deeper and deeper contact with this. Suddenly, Myra feels peace.

I ask Myra to thank her son. For being so brave and tenacious all these years to tell this family story. From a young age, Myra was used to living with a mother who always had vague symptoms. Her son is the spitting image of this; he does exactly the same thing because mother apparently has not yet resolved this trauma. Nero’s complaints tell mother the story that she still had many unprocessed emotions from her childhood. Mother understood this and this allowed Nero to release his complaints.

Dear Nero, thank you so much for your story. Mom understood your complaints and they are now no longer necessary. Mom has connected-fused-loose with this story and gives you all the gratitude and love. Dear Nero, be a good child and enjoy life, live fully in passion, in the things you love, in joy and health.

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