Herpes – cold sores – shingles

Herpes is usually found around the mouth or genitals, on the skin or mucous membranes: wherever the body tissue has an ectodermal origin.

‘Kiss’ or divorce dispute

• Herpes is reaction to a “kissing” or separation conflict and falls under the ectoderm germ sheet. Herpes always has to do with being or not being separated from something or someone. This can be a partner, but also a child, father and/or mother or a friend. Many times, the person received little to no hugs from parents as a child.
• ‘I see you’ and ‘I leave you’ at the same time.
• Genital herpes is a separation conflict along with anger and malice with a sexual charge. Furious about whether or not to have intimacy with a certain person.
• Also : I cannot embrace my relationship goal. Do I now have a symbolic relationship, imaginary, virtual or real relationship?

Two-phase

In the conflict active phase, cell shedding occurs from the tissue involved in the conflict (tissue: skin, mucous membranes, nerve). In the recovery phase, you see cell growth using a certain protein chain (viral information) to accelerate healing. These protein chains invade the epidermis (skin), mucous membrane and nerves and cause the familiar blisters or cold sores.

• Herpes TPM conflict impact: missing or just loathing of (sexual) person
• CA stress phase: cellular decline in skin and/or mucous membranes and nerve. To avoid feeling the lack or disgust, you experience numbness.
• Solution is the hug, kiss, intimacy
• First PCL recovery phase: cell increase skin and/or mucosa and nerve. Herpes is with fluid. By this you recognize the recovery phase, it is always accompanied by moisture. Repairing nerves may produce sharp pain.
• EPI crisis: opening herpes, brief numbness.
• Second PCL: itching, urination, recovery of skin and/or mucous membranes and nerve
• Following is balance sheet
• Click here for more information two-phase

Nerve pain in recovery phase

Nerves are symbolic of transportation. For example: I am waiting for a kiss, but it does not come to me. The painful root of herpes is reflected in the sharp pain a person may experience in the recovery phase with a painfully sharp conviction “I have to try tremendously hard to get what I want.

Herpes mouth

• Mouth: divorce conflict person, friend, father, mother
• In childhood, the person received few or no hugs from parents.
• *My beloved person I missed
• *I detest a certain person

Genital herpes

• Mucous membranes at the genitals are related to intimacy.
• Skin mucosa: separation conflict with sexual charge and anger.
• *I missed my sexual partner
• *I loathe my sexual partner

Herpes sun

Some people get cold sores from being in the sun. Girl (15) was unable to say goodbye to her father, due to a sudden heart attack. ‘I can’t hug my father’.

The sun symbolically represents father.

Herpes cornea

• Separation conflict with visual charge.
• I have lost my loved one from sight
• I never saw loved ones again
• Out of sight

Boy (18) had met his great love while on vacation; they were going to live together. However, his great love went back to US. He thought he would never see his great love again. Out of sight, out of mind. For years he had heartbreak, his great love came once on vacation in Holland and he contracted herpes on his cornea. At twenty-five, his great love returned and to this day they live happily together. Herpes disappeared.

Hanging conflict

If the condition does not disappear quickly, it is usually because part of the conflict is still active: there is daytime stress around being/not being separated from a particular person.

Contamination conflict – Old mesoderm

The belief that herpes is contagious stems from fear. This is a defilement conflict, old-mesoderm. If you consciously or unconsciously think herpes is contagious, you will get it. Click here for more information Old Mesoderm.

Chris’s story

Chris(45) is in a relationship with a woman, who has moved into his home with her two children. After eight years, the woman falls in love with another. Chris is furious. She will continue to live with him for another six months until she finds another home. Then Chris gets long-term shingles on the inside of his thighs: the sexual memories of his “lost partner. Symbolically, his partner was his mother. A wife (mother) who took care of him, brought children, prepared food, made the house cozy, and so on. Recovery is accompanied by great inflammation; it was a fierce separation conflict with anger. Chris thinks the recovery phase looks nasty, a new contamination conflict arises, hence the inflammations (see old mesoderm). He struggles greatly to cope with the divorce conflict, ugly scars develop.

The scars and his skin calm down when, after 1.5 years, he meets his new partner and moves in together. He is having children of his own.

Chris’ father dies when the oldest is four months old. Chris gets severe erysipelas on his tibia with high fever, another intense separation conflict. After the divorce with the mother of his own children, he has frequent erysipelas on his shins. Once every year or six months, he is hospitalized for this severe erysipelas. Unable to cope with the divorce with his partner, the anger remains.

From his Life Blueprint, it appears that he comes into incubator immediately after birth: abandoned by his mother. Moreover, mother was too sick to care for him; his aunt took him in and cared for him. So immediately after birth and in the first year of life, he was separated from his mother. Hence, he looked for a replacement mother each time. After the very painful separations, he was furious because his mother had abandoned him in his Life Blueprint. There was no motherly love to embrace him, to comfort him. Therefore, Chris could not embrace his emotions. On the contrary, his partners were very good at this and tried to help him in this, only they did not succeed. Chris was in too much pain, unconsciously feeling that he had been abandoned by his mother. He died alone. Very symbolically, his mother and family were not at his funeral. Came alone, went alone.

Herpes Zoster – Shingles – Wound dandruff

In this form of herpes, conflict always corresponds to separation. The spot on the skin where the wound or shingles occurs can indicate the nature of the conflict. For example: inner thighs – sexual charge; head and face – prestige lost and/or intellectual separation conflict. Often this also involves ene combination with defilement conflict. In the resolution phase, inflammation of the nerve occurs. This gives a burning sensation and is very painful.

Examples conflicts:

• Divorce conflict with memory of mother and/or grandmother.
• A situation you cannot embrace.
• You have one grandparent left and they pass away, you would have still liked to hug your grandpa/grandma.
• Severe separation conflict of authority giving orders (commands) and giving the person a defiling conflict. This authority has serious fears of contamination.
• Shingles can be memory at the place where the person was beaten (physical abuse).
• Possible memory with being beaten with a belt and/or hand. Sometimes shingles appears exactly where it was struck.
• Person feels amputated from his/her loved one. A fiercely painful divorce. Hence, shingles is very painful; it reminds of the painful separation.
• Shingles after chemotherapy, wanting/not wanting to be separated from it combined with tremendous anger at the diagnosis. ‘My body lets me down’.
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The story of Max

Max (37) suddenly feels unreasonably scolded by his female superior. It feels like a slap in his face. Over time, they patch things up and Max gets shingles on his face. Very painful. In the recovery process, he suddenly remembers that his mother could also suddenly, out of nowhere, be so reproachful. Could it be that his colleague is giving him the opportunity to connect-melt-let go of this now?