“Your mother is not well” – stroke – blog 3

My mother had a stroke July 13, 2021, all functions gone in one moment. The week before she was very confused. I discuss things with my mother as they are, and say ‘mom you are confused’. “Yes, that’s right, I feel very confused.” Suddenly she didn’t remember the days anymore, I take my time to go through the days. The next day she becomes completely upset by the death of a well-known Dutchman. Whom she had just met in a meeting. Confusion. The next day, July 14, her functions return, she can talk and walk again. A miracle according to the doctors, because only 15% recovered like my mother. What is going on?

You don’t need to understand this article, you may be able to follow it. Study it for yourself, perhaps you will find recognition, insight and you can enrich yourself with new awareness.

You can get confused after a TPM of Mother-Soul-Only Conflict (MZA). You feel like a fish out of water or a voice crying in the desert, alone. Because of the confusion, biology (intelligence or automatic control of the body) ensures that you stay on the spot, so that the pack can find you again. Click here for more information MZA – mother-soul-alone.

TPM – The Painful Moment – click here for more information number seven of the ten basic principles.

There are two types of strokes:

1.Herseninfact (click here) – Regular there is nothing to find on CT scan

2.Stroke a blood clot in the brain – Regularly they see bleeding in the brain on the CT scan.

Click here for more information Tia.

What’s going on with a stroke?

1. TPM loss of intellectual territory

She got confused, couldn’t place reality anymore, while she always had a memory like an elephant. Lately this has been regularly ‘I don’t remember this anymore’. My mother didn’t tell much about the past, only that she hated her father. “He smashed things short and small.” No nice things, no annoying things. As if the past didn’t exist. Oh yes, her grandmother, to this day she misses her grandmother (mother’s mother). She loved being with her grandmother.

2.TPM I can’t put down, realize, manifest my ideas.

My mother has been an active woman all her life. Always busy and on the road with her car. However, she found it increasingly difficult to walk. Her car is her everything and parked it close by, resulting in many fines. She was definitely present! She has received a ribbon from the king for her many activities for humanity. The speeding tickets nearly bankrupted her, and she wouldn’t drive for a month to “catch up” financially. Could this possibly have limited her? Why not arranged a parking permit? Would her Self-Esteem TPM have gotten in her way? Or her limiting body? Her stroke tells her story:

Stuck

TPM a motor conflict. The feeling of being stuck, no longer being able, daring or allowed to move.

Conflict active – Epicrisis – cold

Her whole body was paralyzed in one, everything. The next day her speech and movement returned. This paralysis takes place in the conflict active phase CA, immediately after TPM and can recur during the epicrisis. Epicrisis is the peak of the solution, moisture in the motor relay, the entire motor control was blocked where innervation takes place (ectoderm) together with striated muscle tissue (new mesoderm). The person is cold, this is a symptom of the CA phase and epi crisis. At a younger age, the person may be able to receive a diagnosis of MS. Understanding and living this biological process is important to follow your personal biology. Click here for more information biphasicity, number four of the ten basic principles.

Complete paralysis – death

This entire paralysis also occurs in nature for ‘pretending to be dead’. For example, a rabbit lies on its back, as if it were dead, and so it is no longer interesting to its predator and the rabbit keeps itself alive. Also fawns, mice and blows do this. Animals pretend to be dead when the situation is hopeless. The pursuer then releases the prey or even no longer sees the prey. Their predator wants only living creatures. When the danger is over, the paralysis also dissolves.

Psyche – constellation

Psychic have After a cerebral infarction and stroke, their effect is certain. The ability to put things into perspective can decrease or even disappear. Certain survival mechanisms can come to the fore. For example, a person is a slanderer (two TPM constellation: identity along with fear loss territory) and this becomes stronger. Biological sense: speak evil to defend its nest.

For example aggression (two TPM constellation: identity together with territory marking), the person can no longer mask his aggression. Biologically meaningful: aggression to mark its territory.

For example lying (two TPM constellation sexual frustration conflict along with loss conflict), the person lies in order to survive. Stealing, Kleptomania, Casanova, Suicide, Hero, War Journalist, Dangerous Sports, Nymphomaniac, Cheating, etc. have the same two TMPs. Biologically meaningful: behavior to compensate for the loss.

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Other TPMs can also be involved during a stroke:

• Speech disorder in the Brocca center: TPM startle fear or speechlessness conflict
• Blackouts – Absance (epicrisis) of a divorce conflict: click here
• Confusion- MZA Mother-Soul-Alone – Kidney collecting tubes: click here< /li>

TPM loss of intellectual territory

Being my mother, this article touches me personally. I also postponed this article for a long time, because I found it difficult. What’s what? What is happening now in which phase? Death is just around the corner, this is a major stress factor for every human being. What Causes a Motor Conflict – Stuckness? I was literally stuck in my own conflict. I myself in the CA as a survival have also trapped myself in many aspects. The situation with the children’s father – was stuck. The estate (father children) was stuck – I freed it. I was stuck in my work, every innovation was met with a lot of opposition. As a child I was stuck between my parents – bad relationship with cheating, huge fights, and so on. I thought I was responsible for keeping my parents alive, that’s how biology works: keeping my parents alive keeps me alive. If they fight violently, they can kill each other, and I will die myself. Biology thinks in terms of life and death. Biology does everything it can to stay alive. All kinds of survival mechanisms follow from here. It is useful to understand this, to have insight into this and to enrich yourself with new awareness. There is no judgement, blame or victim. You, your (ancestors) parents have done everything to stay alive, see their talents and you have them too!

I liberated these patterns step-by-step. HeartConnection is truly liberating!

Wetting the Pants – Marking Territory

Mama has a bladder problem in the hospital, she pees her pants, because she is in a strange environment, she is not in her own territory. The first days she said every time ‘I want to go home’. In the territory of the hospital, where there are different nurses and doctors every time, it is difficult to mark her territory. Her biology (body) takes over and starts peeing to mark her territory. What do I say to my mother: ‘Good, you mark your territory, your bladder takes over from you, that’s how intelligent the body is’. Because stroke is also an intellectual TMP, therefore praise the body’s intelligence! “Mom, you are very strong, always have been. And how wonderful that you recovered so quickly. And so forth. Click here more information bladder.

Insight – Understanding – Enrichment of New Consciousness

A lot has happened in my relationship with my parents. ‘My inner child’ has experienced a lot. I can start thinking, experiencing, feeling guilty or my parents did wrong (judgment) and I am a victim of their bad relationship (victim). In this I can take therapies all my life, but this will not solve anything. The 10 basic principles of HeartConnection bring me to my own responsibility, click here for more information. I am in mourning, I feel sad, I connect my emotions, thoughts, melting and letting go VVL. At the same time, I realize that my parents are my heroes. They have played the perfect role for me to be who I am. I have lived my talents. HeartConnection develops to understand the psyche, the body, diseases, mind. This inspires me every day, because there is so much to live. They have given me the strength to write this article. Click here for more information actors.

Being stuck – the biological cause of paralysis

My mother was born in 1941 during the war. The Netherlands was occupied by the Germans and was stuck. My mother tells me that they were not bothered by the war in Groningen. Her parents were stuck in marriage. They were not each other’s great love. In the culture of the late 1930s, you are supposed to get married to a certain age and have children. This succeeded after three years and the first born was my mother. Her mother missed her great love, emigrated abroad. Her mother may have felt mother-soul-alone in her pregnancy. At the age of five my mother gets boiling milk over her, for a year she was in bed with the neighbors (they took care of the household of mom’s family), she was outside the family. She was trapped in her body, confined to bed for a year as a five-year-old. When she came back to the family after a year, she was not biologically part of the family. Her number two sister, who held the number one spot for a year, did everything she could to disown her so she could be number one again. This has caused many quarrels, lawsuits and misery throughout their lives. If only they had understood their own biology…

Stuck in her body from the burn. Every day it had to be changed and this hurt enormously, the wounds opened up every time. Click here for more information.

I was burned on my shoulders when I was 12, could this be related? Yes, relationship father, sun, lack of protection. If my mother has not processed it, it will end up with the younger generation. Therefore, our honorable task is to understand life. When I process my processes, this directly affects the family line, both upwards (ancestors) parents and children, and sideways to nieces, nephews, and so on.

Her parents were stuck in their relationship, she herself was also stuck in her relationship. Loneliness, MZA, was a familiar feeling to my mother (relationship with confusion). As her daughters grew up, started talking, became independent, she found this difficult. She tolerated no contradiction. Went on the defensive. Nothing was true. We did it wrong, and so on. A conversation was not possible. Stuck in communication to stay alive. We arrive at perfectionism TPM. Again there is nothing wrong with this, no blame, victim, judgement. I started practicing communication, still every day. My mother has started to focus on others, her many activities, for recognition, approval, appreciation. She also always says: “I am a celebrity, I have a ribbon”, this train of thought stems from Self-Esteem TPM. I have to make myself look good to stay alive. I have to do things to be important. I have to make everyone like me. And so forth. Self-esteem behavior to stay alive: survival mechanism. The advantage is that she has so many dear friends. She’s so popular. She has put a lot of time and energy into this, so that the feeling of loneliness is not palpable. The advantage of this TPM is that she has developed many talents. Click here for more information self-esteem TPM.

Stuck Themes:

• have been lodged in the birth canal.
• being stuck in a certain (family) culture.
• being stuck in a certain train of thought, think about self-esteem, among other things.
• being stuck in a relationship – wanting to get out and not doing it
• to what extent were your parents stuck in their relationship during your Life Blueprint.
• to what extent were your (ancestors) parents incarcerated? Think of going into hiding; working for the Germans (WWII) or a relationship with a German person; jail; being stuck in the body due to an illness; long period in bed (stuck body); being locked up in the basement or room as punishment.
• being stuck to take care of your brothers, sisters, parents.
• (ancestors) parents in the service of a family.
• being stuck due to an out-of-wedlock pregnancy – the woman can’t take it anymore.
• being intellectually stuck: wanting to continue studying but it is not possible/allowed or it did not work out.
• Being spiritually stuck in a floating constellation – ‘flying away’ from the situation out of fear.
• financially stuck, unable to get out of a situation, stuck in your work, etc.
• old age not being able to walk properly.
• stuck in idea and cannot manifest them.
• and so on.

My parents are heroes

I am immensely grateful that my mother is my mother. And my father was my father. How much I have learned from them. It certainly hasn’t been easy. It is precisely because of these spicy experiences that I have developed my HeartConnection power. Through much trial and error I have understood my story, they are my actors and have ‘educated’ me to the person I am now. I am very happy with this, that is why my parents are my heroes.

I am sad (grieving) and happy at the same time. I speak to my mother every day. I name things and if she says “I tell the nurses I’m famous” I say “Yes mom, you’re famous among the people who know you, you’re famous within your circle of friends”. We laugh together, with a big kiss and see you tomorrow.

My mother is doing well, at the moment she is in the rehabilitation center.

Marjolein van der Meulen,

Student of life.

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