Narcissism
Narcissism
Married a Narcissist
A person who is in so much pain and keeps defending himself not to feel that pain. Who therefore pushes the other down, denigrating, so that it seems that he is superior. Underneath is deep fear and uncertainty. You can meet narcissists in the workplace with colleagues, boss, but also with your friend(s), family, and so on. You recognize them faster and faster, if you know yourself.
Hidden fear
For example, by excluding you from contacts, so that you see less and less people, he hides the fear of losing you, the fear of being left alone.
By excluding you from finances, he thinks he has financial power over you. Out of fear of not having anything anymore, fear of losing control, fear of having nothing left.
He feels so much fear that he screams himself out. He is so afraid of being alone and manipulates the other. Arguments, manipulations, threats, kicking the other person down, thinking he is right, feeling that the whole world is a threat to him.
The other side of the coin
- You may ask yourself why you are in a relationship with a narcissist.
- Are you also afraid of being alone?
- Do you also fear the world? Do you also find other people scary?
- Do you also feel threatened in your existence?
- Isn’t it true that you are the other side of the coin?
TPMs: You Marry Your Conflicts (TPMs)
- You marry your conflicts. In this case with a strong:
- Self-Esteem TPM
- Attack TPM
- Starvation TPM
- Mother-Soul-Alone
- Identity TPM
- Territorial Anger
- and who knows more TPMs
- click here for more information biphasicity, the start of a biological process from TPM (unprocessed trauma)
Actor
Ultimately, everything and every situation is your actor. To meet and connect unprocessed pain, to merge and to let go. Click here for more information actor (2) and the 10 basic principles and explain TPMs (7).
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