Hip

The theme of the hip is self-esteem conflict with contradiction. After the conflict impact, there is cell removal. If this takes too long, a person may experience severe pain. For example, long-term decrease in cartilage at the hip is often the reason for hip surgery. Even if the conflict resolves itself, it can lead to tremendous pain. In this case, however, there is cell growth, which along with restorative fluid causes the hip to be repaired. An inflammatory area then develops around the hip, the site of the conflict impact. After some time in this recovery period, the pain will subside. Eigenvalue, bone and cartilage, the germ is new-mesoderm, after the recovery phase you are stronger than before. You can handle the situation better and the hip is stronger. Click here for more information two-phase.

Symbol of the hip

• The hip tells a story with a sexual origin.
• The man desires a certain sexual position that the woman does not want.
• The hip also tells and story of contradiction in the relationship with mother.
• At some point in your life, you were forced to face your mother.
• You acted like your mother is a good mother. In your subconscious there is a contradiction.
• Feeling of having to be better than your mother.
• Mother role. The woman does not feel like a good mother. ‘I have to pretend to be a good mother, but I don’t always feel this way.’
• A sister of mother, who looks a lot like her, “I want to run away from her.

What story does the hip tell?

• Not being able to endure something, bear it or be able/able to endure it.
• Not being able to sustain something.
• It’s too heavy.
• Not being able to carry something.
• Not being able to get through something.
• Unable/unable to follow through.

Examples:

• “I can’t bear to have to put my dog down”
• “I have to pretend to be a good mother, but I don’t always feel this way.”
• “I can’t have enough children.”
• “I want to run away from my mother.”

Hip prosthesis and menopause

Biologically, after menopause, women no longer make sense. She can no longer fulfill the biological us purpose: to reproduce human beings. After menopause, you often see women suffer from hip problems and get hip replacements. It is like a woman saying, “I am now losing my autonomy, my self-assurance, and I need external intervention to restore my autonomy.” It feels like her autonomy, self-reliance, independence has to come from outside.

The story of Berend

Mother constantly interferes with her son Berend’s (55) marriage. He finds no solution in this, is in between. He feels he is caught between a rock and a hard place and cannot handle the situation.

Merel’s story

Merel (67) has always owned a gym with her husband. They both worked in the gym with great pleasure and passion. They sold the gym and then her husband got sick. Merel cared for her husband for several months. For years she worked hard, first having to let go of her baby (gym) and then her husband. As time goes by, she gets more and more pain in her hips. For a long time, she thinks she can get her hips under control with yoga exercises. But it just can’t seem to make the pain go away. This frustrates her greatly. Her whole life was always under control and now suddenly not. From her self-esteem, it feels like failure. Thus she keeps herself hanging, the complaint actually gets worse. She gets a new boyfriend and opts for hip surgery. After rehabilitation, she no longer has pain in her hips.

Hip Questions

• Did you want to get out of a relationship?
• How is the sexual relationship with your partner?
• How is the relationship with your mother?
• Have you processed mother’s passing well?
• Is nothing good enough in your mother’s eyes?
• How is the relationship with your mother’s sisters and/or brothers?
• Does your mother have a favorite brother and do you resemble him?
• Or a sister she hates and you resemble her?
• Who is the predator in your life right now? Your predator is someone with whom you feel uncomfortable, threatened, anxious, you want to get away from them or you want to fight them.
• In what do you feel conflicted?

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