Cervix and Fungal Infection

Silvie asks her question during the One Day in Eibergen. Two months ago, she was diagnosed with cervical cancer with pap value 3B. First, I explain what conflict has to do with the cervix: this is sexual frustration conflict or loss conflict.

Female territory-loss conflict or sexual frustration-TPM

In nature, the female takes care of the nest, the inner territory: children, feeding, nurturing, security, safety. In the litter biologically belongs a fertile male to have children, otherwise the breed dies out. The husband protects the outside territory so that wife and children are safe. In biology, stress occurs when the fertile male is absent from the nest. The woman may experience a TPM in the inner territory in relation to her partner and/or sexually. For example:

• Organic ‘not being covered’
• Not having sex
• Having sex against your will
• Unwanted sexual touching
• Sexual comment from teacher, colleague
• Feeling rejected
• Feeling abandoned
• Man retrieves pack of cigarettes and does not return
• The man is cheating. (Un)consciously the woman always knows this
• The woman is cheating
• Woman/man are not each other’s alphas.

Examples of Cervical TPMs.

• Woman is dependent on her dominant, demanding or indifferent partner.
• Woman feels left out, she has been abandoned by her husband.
• Wife feels left out because he has another.
• Woman feels left out because she has intimacy with her husband against her will.
• Unwanted sexual activities such as having to apply and/or undergo SM, adding an extra woman, toys that the woman does not want, and so on.
• Woman has a “wrong” sexual partner, the man does not suit her, but she is married to it. She feels dependent on him.
• Wife does not have an equal relationship with her husband.
• Woman experiences loss within her territory – something she perceives as possession – such as a child, husband, kitchen, bathroom, and so on.
• Wife wants a new kitchen, but her husband won’t let her.
• Loss of home.
• Husband is an alcoholic and the nest (inner territory) is in danger.
• Husband spends money on alcohol/addiction, preventing wife from feeding her children.
• Man is aggressive at home and threatens his wife and children. This makes the nest unsafe.
• And so on.

Immediately after the TPM (conflict insertion)

After the TPM, a biological process starts in the cervix: cell removal from the cervical lining. Biologically, this makes sense because there is more room for the man’s penis to enter and she is successfully fertilized. Think organic!

Silvie was diagnosed two months ago. What happened two months ago? Silvie says that this year she is working on developing her womanhood, and developing her femininity. In the relationship, she feels stress in intimacy with her husband, feeling like she should be a fun, sexy, free, fresh bed partner. She feels of herself that she does not comply with her husband’s wishes. This stress manifests itself in the cervix; the lining thins during this stress period. During Training HeartConnection you will learn the biological reason.

Two months ago, Silvie’s husband said he would like to have a woman, a sexual partner, there. Silvie feels in relief that she no longer has to live up to her husband’s expectations. Immediately her cervix goes into solution, the inner lining restored by fungi.

If TPM is resolved – Fungal infection

If TPM is resolved, then the fungal auxiliary cells begin to repair the cervical lining. Cell growth occurs again. This may be accompanied by an inflammatory environment or fungal infection. In this recovery process, a diagnosis can also take place as in Silvie’s case. As a woman, do you regularly have fungal infections? Work on the above themes and make the house truly your home. Make it cozy, atmospheric, warm, and so on.

Click here for more information two-phase, the biological process.

Cervix color red see image below:

Marjolein’s story

Marjolein (55) is 25 years old when she is diagnosed with cervical cancer. The hospital keeps calling her because she must be treated as soon as possible or she will die. Marjolein does not want to be treated and does not let on. Over time, she learns about the biology and patterns of her body at HeartConnection. The nest Marjolein came from was unsafe, with an absent mother and absent father. Mother was cheating with various men inside and outside the house. Mother told her daughter about these affairs. Father found out he was into men and fell in love with one of her mother’s lovers, a complex situation with lots of arguments, jealousy, and so on.

• At 15, father stepped out of life.
• At 25, Marjolein was diagnosed with cervical cancer.
• At 35, she had her first child with postpartum depression.
• At 45, she receives support from the food bank after losing home, children, income and so on and having to flee from her aggressive husband. She climbs out of a deep valley and step by step creates her own life and a new, safe nest.

Through HeartConnection awareness, Marjolein gains insight into her body (biology), processes and cervical cancer. She understands her patterns, including the meaning of 15-25-35-45 and she elaborates. Now she understands that at 25 she got a boyfriend who was there for her, this was her recovery process. At 25, she did not seek treatment and lives a healthy life with a vital body.

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