Uterus

The fallopian tube captures the egg from the ovary and guides it to the uterus. The main function of the uterus is the implantation of the fertilized egg (embryo) in the mucous membrane. It is the cavity where the embryo develops into a full-grown fetus.

Uterus: a warm, safe nest

The female organs are related to home, warmth, security and relationship with your mother. In nature, the female is responsible for the home (nest) and the male is responsible for protecting the territory, nest, the female and children. Biologically, we still react this way, including your body. We think in culture, but we respond biologically.

Conflict themes of the womb

1. Reproductive-loss-conflict

Reproduction is biologically important. It is about the survival of the group. A woman can have a conflict breakdown at any time when reproduction is unexpectedly threatened. For example, because of a miscarriage, abortion or stillborn child, but also if you cannot have children or your (grand)children cannot have or do not want to have children. The diagnosis of an illness for the woman, her husband or child, can also cause this anxiety. A woman who very much wants children but falls for women may also suffer this conflict. In all such cases, there is no certainty that the group will survive. In nature, a woman may suffer such reproductive conflict when she is unable to mate or it is interrupted for other reasons.

2. Female conflict

A woman who does not feel feminine enough may suffer from femininity conflict. It is not about sexuality then. A loss conflict also plays a role in this, often grandmother-grandchild, but loss of one’s own child is also possible: the woman then feels she has failed in her femininity. She is unable to give birth to a healthy child or they are caring for a healthy grandchild. Grandmothers often have concerns about raising their grandchildren, as if they have the responsibility as a parent again, as a procreator (in grandfathers see prostate).

Femininity can also be affected when a woman is scorned, put down, insulted, oppressed, sexually abused, raped, dishonored, tormented, harassed or disrespected by a man and/or authority.

It may also be that a woman feels a “mismatch” with her partner and/or his family, as if she cannot implant. Other causes of femininity conflict: mother does not accept sex life of her child(ren), mother is in shock because of partner choice of her child(ren), woman misbehaves toward her partner.

3. Rivalry conflict

Rivalry conflict involves a situation where a man and/or authority dominates or rejects the woman. This is a mean, ugly conflict where female integrity, womanhood, is compromised. For example:

• Incest
• Men are allowed to cheat and girls must behave nicely.
• Men are tough when they have had “many” girls. Girls are sluts if they have had many boys.
• Women must be virgins at marriage and men can have their way.
• Men “seem” to dominate.
• Woman feels guilty about an unwanted (dirty) sexual act.
• Grandmother worries because her grandchild has been raped.
• Woman doesn’t want sex before marriage. She does it anyway under duress from her fiancé.

Immediately after the conflict impact

Immediately after impact, a biological process occurs in the body. The function of the uterus is increased by increase/expansion of the number of endometrial cells. Mucosal thickening occurs: a thicker wall supports the implantation of the fertilized egg. This provides compensation for the loss. It may also be that the cell increase has a secretory quality: formation of more juices to better digest the conflict (kibble). If the conflict is not resolved, cell growth continues to occur in the uterus, this is called tumor growth in the uterus.

If the conflict is resolved

If the conflict is resolved, a biological process in the body immediately takes effect. The woman sleeps and eats better and regains weight. TB bacteria and/or fungi rebuild the “helper cells. Vaginal pus discharge, a strong TB smell, mild bleeding or swelling and night sweats and fatigue may develop. In the peak of resolution, the epi-crisis, chills may occur, as may cramping and strong bleeding.

Click here for more information two-phase, the biological process.

Uterus color yellow see image below:

Ans’ story

During training sessions, Ans works on her family tree. She finds out that her mother was placed outside the family, a bastard child. This pattern of female denial in her family repeats itself in Ans’ life. She feels female denied because her boyfriend does not propose to her. The family clearly shows that she is an outsider and does not belong. Mucosal thickening occurs with a secretory quality. This provides more juices to better digest the conflict (kibble). Ans cannot digest the kibble and her body helps her by salivating the kibble so that it can be digested. After a few years, her boyfriend asks her to marry him. Ans goes into solution. For several months, she has strong monthly bleeding: her thickened mucosa is expelled. The first month after her boyfriend proposed to her, Ans is extremely tired and suffers from night sweats. She understands her process and this makes her completely accept her biological body and even happy.

The story of Mary

Maria (57) has a sexually dominant husband; he wants intimacy every day. Since her transition, she no longer wants this. She complains about him, but does not stand up for herself. Her endometrium increases to help digest this conflict (lump). During the trainings, she shares her story, she is understood and lovingly supported. She can connect-melt-let go of her emotions. She shares her experience with her husband and they make arrangements with each other in which they both respect each other. After this she has strong discharge and night sweats for several weeks, there is a clearing of her endometrium going on.

Grandma and grandson

Grandma loves youngest grandson, her darling. He is 18 and gets a girlfriend. This is a conflict insertion for grandma, as if she wants to keep her grandson to herself. He is moving in with his girlfriend. During training sessions, Grandma will work with herself. Her emotions she can connect-melt-let go. She finds out that her father also rejected her, and this pain was mirrored by her favorite grandson. Grandma goes into solution: for the next few weeks she loses a small amount of blood daily. Fortunately, Grandma understands her story and accepts that her grandson is living together.

New space – Story of Marjolein

Suddenly I have to find another space for my work in one day. This causes unrest in various parties and causes a lot of tension in myself. The operators of the new space are very unfriendly and offensive. This makes me feel like “I’m not welcome. Where do I know this feeling from?

Not welcome at home

As a child, I never wanted to be at home. Home for me was everywhere except my own home. In my marriage, I experienced exactly the same thing: I felt unwelcome, embarrassed and uncomfortable. In my new home, I did not feel welcome and I was attacked by the neighbors. Interesting! From the work of HeartConnection, I know that my mother never felt at home either, nor did my father. A legacy I received through DNA. My honorable task to -I am not welcome- now de-program.

Actors

Many people around me resonate and play a wonderful role in my home theme of feeling unwelcome and even attacked.

Connecting-melting-letting go

I want to change this, I want to let this go, I want to feel welcome everywhere and meet nice operators in hospitality. To connect-melt-release with this theme, I go into nature a lot. I feel non-welcome, tension, seizures, elated, stuffy, disapproval, I-did-the-wrong thing, insecure, anxious, tired, stomach tension, restlessness and more.

I follow the following steps:

1. Recognition: the story is clear to me.
2. Connecting-melting-letting go of emotions, patterns, beliefs.
3. Thinking in solutions: welcome and feel and keep connecting-melting-letting go.
4. Action: find new suitable space with an unconditional feeling of “I am welcome.

Bleeding

Immediately after everything is resolved, my body releases conflict stress and I bleed for a few days. The body tells me that I have released the home stress. This gives me confidence. Do you also want to understand your story? Come to HeartConnection Training and learn all about the womb.

Uterine questions:

• Are you choosing “sweet peace” at the expense of yourself? If so, in what situation(s)?
• Is someone dominating you?
• Do you feel misunderstood and unsupported in your relationship?
• Did someone leave you unexpectedly? Have you not been well cared for?
• Do you feel inferior?
• Are you working hard to resolve a conflict, but there is no result?
• Loss of a loved one such as grandmother or grandchild?

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