Autism

Marijke explains that her son is different from birth and he receives certain diagnoses at an early age including autism. From an early age he has been focused on buttons, lights, and so on. It is a dramatic history from school to school, and not being understood.

Autism two TPM

1. Territory annoyance
2. Scarecrow

The person diagnosed with autism makes his territory small to reduce anxiety. The fear conflict has been so threatening, the best way of biology is to protect its territory, demarcate it, to prevent possible new TPM.

Explanation TPM The Painful Moment click here.

Explanation Two-phase click here. After TPM, person gets behavior change to stay alive, and solve TPM as soon as possible. The autistic person makes territory as small as possible because the fear of fear is so great. In our culture, TPMs cannot be solved for life, and person has certain behaviors to stay alive. In this example diagnosis of autism. Explore and begin to understand the story of autism.

Territory annoyance TPM

This TPM is struck mostly in the Life Blueprint where an intruder, strange person, came into the territory. Consider a rival for partner, strange gynecologist, a person where mother and/or partner felt threatened. Also consider a vaccination, child is held, a strange lady pokes unexpectedly into the body, this may have been experienced by the child as territory annoyance together with terror,

Scare TPM

An unexpected event. For example, childbirth that is traumatic with a lot of anxiety, mother and environment are frightened by the traumatic delivery. Sudden C-section, being initiated and suddenly having violent contractions, the child being born blue, umbilical cord around neck, and so on. All intense moments of terror with fear. Second, you are startled by a reaction, behavior of a loved one, something that you would not expect at all from that other person, fear of terror.

Symbolism of autism

For generations, certain conflicts are not resolved, family secrets remain repeated in the family. The child, the person diagnosed with autism tells a family story.

Parents may have difficulty with

• communication
• listening to themselves and each other
• acquired traumas are suppressed, pushed away, denied by parents

Testimonial Marijke

“I thought it was a very impressive One Day. Very heartwarming, I felt like I could trust people a little again, that people really did have my best interests at heart and that we all have our struggles/programs going on, but that it helps to talk about it, to see it. Thank you so much for the attention you gave me without judgment ? Thank you for the rich experience and much love. ❤️” Marijke

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For the advanced HeartConnection student

We go deeper into the subject matter of an autistic person. You may not yet understand the words and explanations below. Know: your subconscious knows everything!

The person with autism tells a story, this can be examined, and this story has many answers. Within HeartConnection, we invite you to explore without judgment, blame or victimization.

Blockage in information processing

The peculiarity of an autistic person is that information comes in, but the autistic person cannot reproduce it, the body cannot decipher this information. During the night, each person receives an update in the form of coded information (read in our HeartConnection book) to download during the day. Downloading is blocked in an autistic person, there is a communication blockage in the body, so to speak. To stay alive, autistic person makes his world very small, to protect himself from new information during the day, because this the autistic person cannot process. Therefore, autistic people in general are very sensitive, easily overstimulated, or the other side of the coin they completely shut down and you cannot communicate with this autistic person.

One specialty

The autistic person receives the coded information (update at night) just like any human being, and in the brain (body) there is one file where all the information goes from a particular subject. That information ends up in one file, this can be overwhelming. Therefore, autistic people are sublime in one subject. Many times they are perfectionists in their specialty, or perfectionism TPM. Click here for more information perfectionism TPM. Which means agony. There is a mistake in the family, such as ‘I’m not actually allowed to be there. That’s why I don’t say anything, because this could mean my death.’

The autistic person is extremely good at his/her specialty such as numbers, music, administration, carefully tidying folders, good at technology or analysis. Autist can apply good solutions with his file, his field of interest. Their specialty is in “one file.

Socially, they are less good because communication information is not well received by the body (brain). They do not understand human-to-human (social) communication.

Contact with body

The autistic child is dependent on his parents, especially mother, because he does not have his own anchor and is therefore (socially) directionless. He lacks good connection to his body. The autistic person needs guidance, someone to show him/her the way, to give direction. Structured explanations, no unexpected activities, this the brain (body) cannot process, because there is only one file in his brain.

The person with many interests, out of the box thinker or creative person, has many files where the coded information enters. This person is creative in thinking and has broad interests, it can process the received information well and also apply it in daily life.

What to do.

• A lot in nature to connect the body with the earth, outdoor swimming, hiking.
• Start understanding the autistic person, start understanding the workings of information processing as described above.
• Find out the family story.
• What happened in the Life Blueprint? Birth?
• Do parents, ancestors have difficulty communicating?
• Are emotions, feelings allowed to be there with the parents, ancestors?
• The feeling that a certain subject is forbidden to speak out?
• For generations children are beaten, so child says nothing to avoid being beaten. What story is there in the family that is suppressed?
• Is there shame in the family over a family tragedy?
• Out-of-wedlock child in the family?
• Family secret?

Again there is nothing wrong with an autistic person, the autistic person tells a story. Go explore!