Hemorrhoids – Identity – Anus

“Who am I? This is a difficult question for many. You can say your name, where you live, what your hobbies are, who your parents are, what kind of work you do, and so on. But who are you? Why do you do certain things? What is your identity?

Sitting in place – territory

When you sit down somewhere, that is your “place. With the rectum, that’s how you put your place, your identity. But what is identity? This is your mother’s place in the family. A female takes care of the nest (family) and father takes care of the outdoor territory. You can establish identity when the home situation is balanced. If mother can do this well, then the child, too, can establish an identity. Did your mother have trouble establishing her identity in the family, then it becomes difficult for the children to establish their identity.

Biological explanations: mother and home

From nature, the woman takes care of the house and the children. The woman defines her identity by creating the atmosphere in the home, through coziness, color, sheepskins, coziness, candles and what is eaten. She prepares food that is eaten, digested and ejected by the children through the rectum, poop. So with poop, feces, the woman puts down her signature, her identity. This identity gives her children strength and inspiration to establish their identity as well. To be allowed to be who they are. To choose their own path, walk it and stand firmly in it. With a well-developed identity, you feel at home wherever you are, because you can properly establish your own place from your identity. You have a good relationship with your mother, who is protected (outside territory) by father. Protection from father gives mother security in the nest and this allows her to establish her identity.

Identity at risk

Mother’s identity may be compromised if, for example, there is insufficient income, father is cheating, has an addiction and cannot protect the family. Identity is also related to origins, for example, culture, religion, rich/poor, and so on. Can you put down your identity or are you stuck in desirable behaviors because of a particular origin? The conflict “I cannot take my place on earth” also plays out here.

Two-phase

• A conflict strike in this area strikes the identity relay with organ rectum, ectoderm germ sheet.
• CA: cell removal inner lining skin rectum
• 1st PCL: emergence of hemorrhoids, due to repair of rectum lining and moisture
• Epi-crisis: possible blood
• 2nd PCL: recovery rectum, balance
• Hemorrhoids usually occur in a right-sided woman and a left-sided man

Identity conflict: hemorrhoids

Hemorrhoids are part of a conflict where you cannot contradict the other person. You can’t say “no. For example, the child who cannot stand up to the parents and therefore may have great difficulty putting down his identity. Or there is an unpleasant situation that someone wants to get rid of. You want to take it out, but it sticks. The conflict is not resolved and the hemorrhoids remain. During the day stress about not being able to put down your identity to insufficiently, and at night in recovery, because sometimes it still works but not quite. You stay in a vicious circle, so to speak. Symbolically, your rectum gets bigger and you get help from your biology (body) to put down your identity.

Hemorrhoids at birth

Mother has hemorrhoids at the birth of her child. With this, mother gives the child identity. This is a good sign: ‘Because I myself had not received an identity from my mother I now give this to my child.’

Questions in identity – hemorrhoids – anus

• How was the relationship with your mother?
• Do you find it easy to sit in a room somewhere?
• Can you go to the toilet for defecation anywhere?
• How do you feel in a group?
• Space in the family?
• Did you marry the right one?
• Could you find the right partner (spot)?
• Do you feel connected to your work?
• Can you express your talents?
• Have you (had) problems with who you are?
• Was it difficult for father/mother to take their place?
• Have you ever had hemorrhoids? When?
• Are you unsure where you belong/don’t belong?
• Are you unsure where you belong: at home or at work?
• Do you feel like you can’t articulate yourself?
• Are you always traveling?
• Are you feeling restless, indecisive?
• Do you find it difficult to make a decision?
• Do you feel like an outsider?
• Which role does not support you?
• Do you do things against your will?
• Are you unable to let go of a situation that makes you angry?
• Do you feel as if you have lost your true identity?
• Do you feel inability to define your position/purpose in life?
• Don’t know where you belong?