Interview Marjolein van der Meulen

Interview Marjolein van der Meulen

Each complaint or illness tells your own story

Marjolein van der Meulen discovered a philosophy of life that made her look at life and health 180 degrees differently. A view that makes you take responsibility for and become the director of your own story. And which she now passes on through her One Day in the Country and Practitioner Training.

She had a career as a corporate account manager at the bank, followed by a successful naturopathic practice developing energy products and nutritional supplements. Until her life took a completely different turn and she was left on the street with literally nothing but her two children after a divorce. During that period she became fascinated to find out the cause of her own drama programs and illnesses, and she succeeded! “It’s about looking at what a complaint, illness or life event has to tell you. From your biology, physical disorders are preceded by a psychologically or emotionally charged experience. These experiences can be caused in your current life, your personal timeline, Life Blueprint (period around your pregnancy) and in previous generations. Everything that you, your parents and ancestors have not processed, you live every moment. You are a walking excel sheet, you live because algorithmic mathematical patterns arise in your Life Blueprint.”

Watching survival programs

She continues: “Biology has many different survival programs that may or may not start depending on events in your life. These programs help us humans survive as a species and have worked the same way for millions of years. We still respond biologically. Fortunately, because that is why man still exists today. But because of the culture we live in, we no longer know how to rely on our biology. We no longer see being sick as something that is part of life, but we tackle the symptoms with all our might. If you choose to look at your disorders, you will discover that they tell you a lot about who you are. Then your whole life turns out to be a symbol for who you really are. The work you do, the partner you have, the conflicts you are involved in, it’s all for a reason. Once you are aware of what is happening to you, why it is happening to you and how themes can often be traced back generations, you can get started and break patterns to get to your talents.”

Cure of diabetes

She discovered her story of diabetes herself. “When I was thirty I got diabetes. My father passed away when I was fifteen. I experienced this as very frightening and disgusting. In addition, I discovered that I had apparently taken over from him the theme of resistance, which my father had lived all his life. These themes are the biological cause of diabetes. There are programs in your subconscious that are connected to each other. My most traumatic experience was when I was fifteen years old, if you double this you end up with thirty years. For example, illnesses can manifest themselves later in life, while the trauma has already taken place earlier in your life. You may also have experienced trauma in your sixth month of pregnancy. This theme may reappear at your sixth, twelfth, eighteenth, and so on. In this way, your life is like a program that is played every time. By understanding this, connecting and letting go, you heal from illnesses. Like I was cured of diabetes.”

Frozen shoulder thawed

After Marjolein had experienced the groundbreaking effects herself, she decided to share her knowledge with others via HeartConnection Netherlands. With equally astonishing results. Like with Lydia, who has been struggling with a frozen shoulder for some time. “First of all, I went with her to look at how the shoulders are used in nature. With your shoulders you open the cave, you push the stone away. But if there’s a predator in front of the cave, you can’t get out and you’re stuck. So who is your predator? And where are you stuck in your life? Who has been trapped in the family? Shoulders also stand for guilt and accusation. With your shoulders you embrace the other, something you love. Then Lydia started talking about her mother. It was mostly lonely and emotionally closed. She spoke little. I asked Lydia what her mother had to shut up about. Lydia then shared a family secret she learned when she visited her aunt in Australia in 2013. Her grandfather came from Friesland, her grandmother from Germany, they lived in South Limburg. Grandpa had people in hiding, but they pretended to cooperate with the Germans. After the war they were arrested and imprisoned by the Dutch. So both Germans and Dutch were their predators. A disaster, because during the war her mother was allowed to go into hiding say nothing. She had to keep her mouth shut and lived in constant fear. Her house was completely unsafe because of the people in hiding. This has a huge impact on the children, including Lydia’s mother. She lived in fear for the rest of her life. After the war, her parents were also imprisoned, even though they had done a good job. By connecting everything together, Linda understood her complaint and her frozen shoulder melted like snow in the sun.”

Like a detective in the subconscious

Marjolein: “In this example you can clearly see that when memories of your ancestors are not processed, they continue to circulate in the family tree until they are resolved. From your symptoms, from the moment they started, we therefore look like a detective through the subconscious to find the cause of the complaint. By using the subconscious you can make unknown patterns, blockages, emotions and beliefs become visible in consciousness. Then deprogram them. This goes through consciousness: connecting – merging – letting go. Becoming aware of your patterns and beliefs is the key to healing. When the cause is revealed, a cure becomes possible.”

Your body tells your story

But what if you don’t know your family history? “Don’t forget that your subconscious knows everything and that everything is stored in your body,” explains Marjolein. “The body itself tells your story. Your subconscious knows all the family secrets. During Practitioner Training we do exercises that allow you to bring out your unconscious information. Because patterns repeat themselves, you can discover for yourself how the period was before, during and after childbirth.” Like with Mirelle. Her parents were 19 years old and 17 years old when she was born. The conception took place during the fair, her mother did not drink alcohol, her father did. It was a disgrace in those days to get pregnant before marriage. That’s why her parents had to marry, in black, because they were Roman Catholic. They also had to do penance to the priest. Her mother had fears because of her pregnancy. She was afraid that Mirelle’s father would abandon her and not marry her. Mirelle’s father was afraid that after one evening of fun fair he would suddenly lose his free life. And the community condemned them for their pregnancy. They could not reverse the act, but how they would have loved to get rid of this pregnancy. After four months of pregnancy, they get married and the young couple goes to live with her parents. Mirelle went through the same emotions that her parents experienced when she became a mother herself. She fell into an inexplicable postpartum depression. Her parents’ loads of unprocessed emotions, the fears and wanting to push the pregnancy away came up with full force. We set out to find the story of these intense emotions together. To then Connect, Merge and Let Go (VVL). Mirelle finally discovered after so many years what caused her postpartum depression. It wasn’t her pain, it was her parents’.”

Conflict impact in brain

According to Marjolein, every illness or complaint starts with a conflict, an emotionally charged experience. “A conflict impact has an effect on a certain place in the brain, from which an associated body part or organ is controlled. The psyche also reacts, the person gets a change of character. The organ or body part rules with the increase of cells or functions. There may be complaints or an illness. For example, intestinal complaints can be related to something that you find very difficult to process (digest). Lung complaints can arise from death fears and other fears. Migraine is the resolution of a self-devaluation conflict combined with stress about which direction to take. Muscle and joint complaints arise from a lack of self-esteem: am I good enough, fast enough, do I meet all the requirements or can I do it? For example, every complaint or illness has a specific theme, which originated in your Life Blueprint, timeline or family tree.”

10 basic principles

During the HeartConnection One-Day and Practitioner Training you will learn how your subconscious works, how to manifest your field of consciousness and how to meet your actors in it. Symbolism always gives an extra dimension. Each judgment guides you to your own conflict impact, The Painful Moment (TPM). With pain, despair, emotions you will connect-merge-let go 24/7 (VVL). You learn that everything is an encounter with yourself through which you can take responsibility. “I especially want people to think they are special. There are many dramas in the world and I want to tell people that whether they are physically or mentally ill, or are dealing with some other form of oppression, there is always a way out. You become aware of everything i complaints by tracing your own unique story. From your complaints, illnesses, life events you will investigate signals yourself, so that you become aware of your unconscious patterns and can heal through this awareness. With this knowledge you are the director of your own life and you live your passion!” concludes Marjolein.

HeartConnection activities

• One day in the country – Ask your personal question! – click here
• Summer week in Groenlo – Children are also welcome – date to follow
• International Trip – September 11-18, 2021 Southern Spain – click here
• Practitioner training starts October 2021 – click here

Aqua Optimizer

Together with her daughter Ananda (18) she has a second company Aqua Optimizer. A powerful water vitalizer for vitalizing tap water for people, animals, living and working environments, and fuel. The Aqua Optimizer neutralizes chemical impressions in the water, among other things. “Wonderful products for which I am very grateful. On to a new consciousness!” Click here for more information.

Interview by Isabel Timmers, Pimtekst in Veldhoven