Mountain hike – ego

During the HeartConnection Training you are in a process of change or encounter with yourself. You are walking a beautiful mountain – your personal path. Your heart, your soul and your personality want to walk the mountain and get to the other side to take on the adventure. The adventure of meeting yourself in total connection. Only the ego prefers to walk down the mountain, back to where you started.

Ego as saboteur

The ego is doing its utmost to stop or sabotage your mountain hike. The ego is extremely creative in coming up with hundreds of reasons not to follow your mountain hike. Such as falling into old habits, fears and control and especially judgments. Keep this in mind.

Examples of ego sabotage

  1. Getting tired, dreading things and making something bigger than it is. The ego lets you focus on your complaint(s). You then give them so much attention that your complaint(s) remain correct. Because everything that gives you attention, that’s where your energy goes and makes you bigger. We will elaborate this further during the training sessions.
  2. You are doing well and suddenly you have to deal with adversity, which your ego then turns into a lot of drama: ‘See, I can never do it’. So much energy goes into your drama that you have no energy left to follow your path.
  3. An old complaint comes back and your ego says: ‘See, what nonsense you are doing’ or ‘Watch out, you have to try even harder, you have to improve your exercises/meditation/diet /and so on’.
  4. Dwelling in toxic relationship(s), situation(s). So much energy goes into this that you don’t have time to follow your beautiful mountain hike.
  5. Judging your partner, parents, colleagues, family, others, situations, news and especially yourself. You blame the other person for your own complaints, for your own frustrations. You put the focus outside of yourself. In other words, your ego distracts and judges you. From this judgment (ego) your mountain hike becomes too hard and you drop out.
  6. You want to take giant steps to finish your mountain hike as quickly as possible. Your ego gets frustrated because your “progress” isn’t moving fast enough. You then no longer see the small positive changes and the energy leaks away from your etheric body (explanation day 4 training HeartConnection 1). As a result, you no longer have the strength to walk your mountain path. Meanwhile, your ego ensures that you feel all the frustration, irritation, anger, fears, fatigue or other complaints all the more.
  7. “What nonsense to follow your mountain walk yourself,” says the ego. ‘Can the other person take away my complaint(s)?’. The ego runs from therapist to therapist, because it believes that a remedy can and should remove the complaint(s). The ego needs resources to feel better. And so each time the ego finds a new method, another book, or yet another therapy that works even better. Finally, the ego says, “I’ve done so much already” or “I already know all this.”
  8. Your ego says: ‘HeartConnection says means are no good’ and makes a whole story out of it. But in doing so, your ego is taking a fact out of context. We call this “interpretation of your ego pain.” Please note: HeartConnection has no judgments about resources, therapies, treatments, etc. She does not provide solutions and advice. HeartConnection gives ancient knowledge and unique wisdom.
  9. You immerse yourself completely in the theory and want to fully understand the subject matter and complaint. The ego ensures that you do not understand it. On which you will delve even more into matter, in theory. This prevents the ego from connecting.
  10. Your ego starts fantasizing facts. From ego pain, a comment or a situation creates a complete drama. For example: “You abandon me because you don’t want to take me away” or “You don’t do what I say and now I don’t like you anymore”. Or how about: “See, nobody listens to me” or “I’m all alone, because you don’t want to go to the cinema with me.” These moments of pain become beliefs and then subjective truths. Your ego belief has now come true. Then see, hear, smell, taste, feel the world from your beliefs. And note: you are not the only one, because the other also lives from his/her convictions!
  11. Want to convince the other of the beautiful work of HeartConnection and you fail, the other is not interested at all. You feel responsible for the other; you want to help the other; you focus on the other, situation, work, so that you don’t have to worry about yourself.

During HeartConnection Training you will learn how these conflict impacts with her belief(s) affect your physical body. You learn where the cause of a complaint (disease) comes from and the circle is complete again.

HeartConnection stands for or neutrality

HeartConnection teaches you to follow your own, unique and beautiful mountain hike and to take your own responsibility for it. In connection, merging and letting go. After this fusion you will choose what you do want. What do you want? You also make your choice, your goal from connection, fusion and manifestation.

I wish you

* in everything you encounter feel yourself;
* you receive the invitation to connect with yourself;
* so that you merge with your body, soul and personality.

That’s HeartConnection!

Enjoy your beautiful mountain walk.

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